Social stationery or personalized stationery is gaining popularity, and for good reason. A heartfelt handwritten note perfectly conveys your sentiment, allowing you to connect with the recipient. Custom stationery has long been the standard for weddings, and many people are realizing the benefit of keeping personalized stationery on hand.
All social stationery orders receive a 20% discount off retail pricing. Social stationery pieces include flat and folded notes, calling cards, lettersheets, and gift tags.
Social Stationery Etiquette
1. Choosing the Right Stationery:
Formal vs. Informal: Formal stationery is generally used for more professional or significant occasions, while informal stationery is suitable for casual notes to friends and family.
Personalization: Consider whether to use your full name, initials, or a monogram on your stationery.
Style: Choose stationery that reflects your personal style and the tone of your message. You can opt for embossed stationery, colored paper, or more modern designs.
Ink Color: Black or dark blue ink is considered more formal, while other colors can be used for casual notes.
2. Considering the Recipient:
Relationship: If you’re writing to someone you’re on a first-name basis with, you might choose a more casual style.
Professional or Formal: When addressing professionals or people you’re less familiar with, using formal stationery and titles (if appropriate) is important.
3. Word Choice and Tone:
Formal: For formal occasions, use proper titles, formal greetings (e.g., “Dear Mr./Ms. Last Name”), and a more formal tone.
Informal: For casual notes, you can use nicknames, casual greetings (e.g., “Hi”), and a more relaxed tone.
Spelling: Always spell out words in full when writing to someone of a higher social standing.
Avoid Abbreviations: Avoid abbreviations unless they are common and easily understood.
4. Examples of Social Stationery Use:
Thank You Notes: Always send a thank you note for gifts, hospitality, or other acts of kindness.
Invitations: Use formal or informal stationery depending on the type of event (e.g., formal wedding invitation vs. casual birthday party invitation).
Condolence Notes: Use a formal and compassionate tone when sending a condolence note.
Birthday Notes: Use informal stationery and a cheerful tone when sending a birthday note.
5. Etiquette Considerations:
Handwriting: Always write thank you notes and other personal notes by hand.
Timing: Send thank you notes promptly, ideally within a week or two of receiving a gift. Address: It’s generally considered polite to hand-address envelopes, especially for formal occasions.
6. Where to Write Your Message:
Flat notes should be handwritten on one side only. Folded notes, often referred to as informals, should be written on the inside only, but it is appropriate, if you need more space, to write on the top inside of the card rather than the back.
Shop our Social Stationery Collection.
Create Your Own Social Stationery
Check out our social stationery designs. Like all of our designs, the social stationery designs are customizable. You can change the fonts, paper, printing methods, colors, envelope liner, and more to create something unique, or you can create your very own stationery design. Contact us to learn more and create your social stationery.
We recently released our first-ever social stationery collection, and we’re excited to share with you some of the inspiration behind this release. We wanted to elevate the look of the handwritten note with this collection. Stationery is an opportunity to let your personality shine through on paper and leave a lasting impression.
So we tried to create stationery suites that could speak to lots of different styles. From modern and tailored designs like Julian and Anthony. To whimsical and wonderful designs like Georgina and Lauren.
We paired together refined typography, elegant patterns, and bold die-cut shapes to create designs that will wow whoever receives them. But the customization options are endless, so we hope you can use these designs to inspire what is perfect for you!
See all of these new designs in our Social Stationery Collection. Are you ready to create your own social cards? Contact us to create your very own custom note card, calling card, tag, or more! You can also work with one of our dealers to see samples, paper and ink swatches, and receive expert tips and guidance.
We recently caught up with Laura of Laura Damiano Designs and learned how she got her start in the industry, what inspires her to keep going each day, the best advice she ever received, and more!
Tell Us About Yourself and How You Got Into the Stationery Business
I’ve always been an artist at heart. Growing up, I was constantly drawing, coloring, and dreaming beyond the lines. What started as a childhood love for creativity quickly grew into a lifelong passion that shaped the first two decades of my life.
I began my journey in the stationery world purely out of a love for paper and typography. While working in corporate America, I had the opportunity to design all the stationery and signage for a wedding – and I instantly fell in love with everything and the process. Once people saw what I could do, they started reaching out for their own events. One thing led to another, and what began as a creative side hustle turned into a full-blown business. Fast forward, here I am 15 years later and still going strong!
Where Do You Find Inspiration?
I draw inspiration from everything around me. I’m always observing, absorbing, and creating in my head. I keep a notebook close to capture my thoughts – quick scribbles that often snowball into new ideas. One idea sparks the next, and before I know it, my imagination is exploding.
What is the Best Advice Anyone Has Ever Given You?
The best advice anyone has ever given me is to never be afraid to ask questions. To admit that you don’t know everything is not a weakness – it’s a strength. Because questions lead to answers, answers lead to growth, and growth allows us to adapt and conquer. Curiosity is not just the beginning of knowledge; it’s the beginning of transformation.
What Does a Typical Day in Your Life and Business Look Like?
As a single mom and business owner, my days are never short and never simple. But I refuse to let the busyness stop me. With organization, resilience, and moments of self-care, I create space for both responsibility and growth. Every day reminds me that strength is built in the balance.
What Can Couples Expect When They Work With You?
Couples can expect a truly personalized, one-on-one experience from start to finish. Every detail is carefully tailored to reflect their story, ensuring the design is completely unique to them. I never duplicate art. Each piece is intentionally crafted as a one-of-a-kind creation – never cookie-cutter.
More About Laura
Laura Damiano Designs is a multi-award-winning studio specializing in custom wedding invitations, event stationery, and brand design. Based in Westchester, New York, and serving clients throughout the Tri-State area and worldwide, Laura Damiano Designs offers bespoke creations that capture the unique stories and personalities behind life’s most meaningful moments and professional milestones.
Each piece is personally designed by me, Founder + Creative Director, Laura Damiano – ensuring a distinctive, handcrafted touch. From timeless elegance to bold modern styles, I bring limitless creativity to every project – carefully selecting colors, fonts, and design elements to reflect each client’s individual vision.
Everything about Christiane and Shepherd’s wedding invitation suite is charming and dreamy. This couple said ‘I do’ at Château de la Croix, located in the French Riviera, and their wedding stationery struck the perfect balance between a rustic French countryside feel and a black-tie affair. We were so happy to work with our dear friend Stacey of Union Street Papery on these French Riviera estate wedding invitations.
Invitation
letterpress ink: yale
foil stamping: copper matte
fonts: bodega + mrs eaves
paper: bella cotton ivory 2-ply
foil edging: copper matte
card size: f-8
envelope liner: viola pattern in cmyk
envelope: white cotton text
digital envelope addressing: yale digital on the front and the back
job: 75972
Belly Band
digital ink: cmyk
paper: ivory text
card size: f-8 vertical belly band (1.5 x 13.25 open, 1.5 x 6.24 closed)
job: 75972
The invitation features copper matte foil stamping and yale letterpress ink on our Bella cotton ivory 2-ply paper. The ivory stock has a soft texture but still holds a deep letterpress impression. Our viola pattern appears on the liner and the belly band. This rustic floral pattern has a refined yet moody vibe. We offer a wide array of patterns that make excellent envelope liners, and all of them can also be repurposed for use on belly bands, the back of cards, gatefolds, or anywhere else. The edges of the invitation are lined in copper matte foil, introducing a sense of glamour.
The tri-fold details card merges style and functionality. Yale letterpress printing appears on both the front and back, coordinating with the invitation. Illustrations of the venue adorn several panels, while the first panel features the same floral motif that appears on the invitation.
Details Card
letterpress ink: yale (front) / yale (back)
fonts: bodega + mrs eaves
paper: bella cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-2 tri-fold card (5.44 x 12.56 open, 5.44 x 4.19 closed)
finishing: score
job: 75972
These custom estate wedding invitations boast so many wonderful details, including custom artwork of the venue, foil edging, and a decadent floral belly band. Whether you’re daydreaming about a chic French countryside aesthetic or another look that perfectly aligns with your big day, we can make it happen, or you can work with one of our highly skilled dealers to receive the guidance and assistance you need.
Julia and Alexander worked with our dear friend Sheryl of Arabesque of Naples to create their custom Art Deco wedding invitation. The invitation is lovely and glamorous, and it is also paired with a stunning foil-stamped gatefold that elevates this invitation suite.
Invitation
letterpress ink: black
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: quita + edith
paper: bella smooth cotton white 2-ply
card size: 5.81” x 7.94”
inner invitation envelope: white cotton text
outer invitation envelope: white cotton text
digital envelope addressing: black digital on the front and the back
job: 73989
Gatefold
foil stamping: opaline shine
fonts: edith
paper: bella smooth cotton white 1-ply
size: 11.77” x 7.94” flat, 5.87” x 7.94” folded
finishing: score
job: 73989
The invitation features a delicate border with thin, alternating lines in gold matte foil and black letterpress, along with a ladder-like pattern in foil. Letterpress sunbursts accent the corners. The frame is geometric and highly detailed, and does an excellent job of drawing the eye to the text. The text also alternates between letterpress and foil stamping, with the names appearing prominently in a larger script font and foil-stamped in gold matte.
The gatefold is a showstopper. This enclosure features an Art Deco shell pattern on the exterior. The bride and groom’s first initials appear on the front, but on opposite sides of the opening, lining up perfectly when the gatefold is closed. Opaline shine foil gives the gatefold an ethereal quality.
We are delighted to have had the opportunity to bring Julia and Alexander’s vision to life, and we wish them all the best. Do you have your heart set on an Art Deco wedding invitation or a luxurious gatefold? Locate one of our dealers so you can see samples and receive expert tips and guidance to create your custom invitations!
Our dear friends at Smitten Boutique brought us the invitation design for Megan and Conner’s big day, and it is amazing. This lovely wedding invitation suite combines elements from various designs, creating something utterly unique that perfectly fits together in an elegant and stylish way.
Invitation
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: la luxes + adobe jenson
paper: bella holly 2-ply
card size: f-8
foil edging: gold matte
thread: metallic gold
envelope liner: custom sweet christine pattern in pearl shine foil on white text
envelope: holly text
envelope foil stamping: gold matte on the back flap
job: 67150
Reply Card
letterpress ink: holly
fonts: la luxes + adobe jenson
paper: bella handmade white
card size: a-6 deckle edge
envelope: holly text
envelope foil stamping: gold matte on the front
job: 67150
The invitation features the layout of our Ines design. Gold matte foil on our holly paper is elegant, while the 2-ply stock features a deep impression. Foil edging in gold matte adds even more decadence. The envelope also features our holly stock with gold matte foil stamping on the flap. The artwork is our Everly vine motif. All of our motifs can be reimagined as accents on any piece in a suite, from cards to envelopes.
The Everly vine motif is also found on the reply card, creating consistency between the pieces. Our Leone reply card is the design inspiration behind Megan and Conner’s reply card. For this card, the holly color is introduced via letterpress printing.
Details Card
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: la luxes + adobe jenson
paper: bella holly 1-ply
card size: no. 17
finishing: hole drill (3/16″); assemble with details tag and gold grommet
job: 67150
Details Card Tag
foil stamping: gold matte
digital printing: cmyk
fonts: la luxes + adobe jenson
paper: 40# vellum
card size: 1×2.25”
diecut shape: cd-342
finishing: hole drill (3/16″)
The details card combines gold matte foil with our holly paper and a vellum overlay, held in place with a gold grommet. The inspiration behind this piece is the details card from our Ichabod design. The concept was reworked to fit within this suite, and the design is seamless.
Events Card
deboss: blind
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: la luxes + adobe jenson
paper: bella cotton white 2-ply
card size: a-5
job: 67150
The events card borrows the honeycomb artwork from our now-retired Sweet Christine design. The text appears in gold matte foil, while the patterned artwork is blind debossed, or printed without ink. Our 2-ply paper holds a crisp impression, even when the foil-stamped text overlaps. The honeycomb pattern also appears on the envelope liner, although this iteration is in foil. Pearl shine foil adds a subtle shimmer.
The entire suite is held together with metallic gold thread wrapped around the stacked pieces in a criss-cross pattern before being slipped inside the envelope.
This charming wedding invitation suite includes nature motifs and geometric patterns, as well as different print methods and various paper stocks, and everything beautifully works together in a perfectly orchestrated way. We wish the best to Megan and Conner, and we are so appreciative to Smitten Boutique for bringing us such a lovely design. Locate one of our dealers to create your own custom wedding invitation suite.
These striking letterpress save the dates are completely custom and feature an illustration of the venue for a personal touch. Michael and Jacqueline worked with our NYC store for their custom save the date.
The couple chose our cotton 2-ply, which has a pillowy feel and soft texture. The stock holds a nice, deep impression and perfectly showcases the thin lines of the supplied artwork. The standout feature of this save the date card is the illustration of the wedding venue, the Tappan Hill Mansion.
Specifications
letterpress ink: myrtle
fonts: trajan + edwardian script
paper: bella cotton ivory 2-ply
card size: a-6
envelope: holly text
digital envelope addressing: white digital on the back
job: 71616
Myrtle letterpress ink, paired with our ivory paper, is stately and elegant, and sets the perfect tone for a spring wedding. Our holly envelope coordinates beautifully with the letterpress ink. White envelope addressing on the holly envelope is on trend and elevates the look.
Are you interested in creating elegant letterpress save the dates? Or incorporating an illustration? We can make it happen. You can work with us or you can work with one of our dealers to create your dream save the date cards.
It’s always exciting when we hear from our dear friend Heather from Posh Parties & Paper because we know we’re in for something spectacular. The day of pieces for Mary and Peter’s Palm Beach wedding did not disappoint.
Guests received an itinerary listing all of the important details for the weekend. This tri-fold card is letterpress printed in olive and features an illustration of the venue, The Breakers Palm Beach, on the cover.
Weekend Itinerary
letterpres ink: olive
fonts: vena amoris + neutra
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-5 trifold card (4.75 x 10.14 open, 4.75 x 3.38 closed)
finishing: score
job: 75393
A script letter ‘B’ was foil-stamped in gold matte on the program cover, proving that less is more. The interior pages are digitally printed in olive and secured in the cover with a silk ribbon for a decadent touch.
Program Cover
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: vena amoris
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-6 folded (6.19 x 9.12 open, 6.19 x 4.56 closed)
silk ribbon: ivory buttercream
finishing: hole drill .1875″, assemble with interior pages and ribbon
job: 75393
Program Pages
digital printing: olive(front) / olive (back)
fonts: vena amoris + neutra
paper: ivory text
card size: a-6 folded (5.94 x 8.88 open, 5.94 x 4.44 closed)
finishing: hole drill .1875″, assemble with interior pages and ribbon
job: 75393
The double-sided menu features letterpress printing for the text, and floral artwork digitally printed on the reverse side. Each guest’s name appears digitally on the reverse side. The 7-inch circle menus perfectly fit into each place setting, making it a functional part of the tablescape.
Menu
letterpress ink: olive (back)
digital printing: antique gold + cmyk (front)
fonts: vena amoris + neutra
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 2-ply
card size: 7-inch circle
diecut shape: circle (BP-11)
job: 75393
Day of pieces are an integral part of wedding stationery and help keep guests informed and involved in the event. We were so happy to create these items for Mary and Peter, and we wish them the best. Are you in need of day of pieces for your wedding or event? Contact one of our dealers to get started designing all of the pieces for your big day.
Natalie and Benjamin chose our Mirabella design for the nuptials, which was a perfect choice for their big day. The couple worked with our NYC store to create their letterpress and foil wedding invitations, and the results are stunning.
The grandiose invitation design perfectly set the tone for Natalie and Benjamin’s wedding, which was held at the St. Regis New York. This iconic venue is an excellent example of Beaux Arts architecture, and the extravagant foil-stamped frame of the invitation beautifully coordinates with the venue. The venue even made an appearance on the custom envelope liner. An illustration of the St. Regis New York appears in antique gold digital printing on the liner.
Invitation
letterpress ink: plum
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: brilon 1.2 + coldiac regular – AT
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 2-ply
card size: f-8
liner: custom pattern in antique gold digital
envelope: ivory cotton text
digital envelope addressing: plum digital on the front and the back
job: 70367
The details card is on our plum 2-ply paper, and exclusively features gold matte foil. The result is ornate and lavish, and makes the perfect addition to this invitation suite. The couple printed two versions of the details card (only one is pictured). One version included details regarding the rehearsal dinner, eliminating the need for a standalone rehearsal dinner invitation, allowing for a more streamlined invitation suite.
Details Card
foil stamping: gold matte
fonts: brilon 1.2 + coldiac regular – AT
paper: plum 2-ply
card size: a-6
diecut shape: charleston (BF-3)
job: 70367
Do you dream about elegant letterpress and foil wedding invitations? Are you interested in including Beaux Arts-inspired design elements or finding interesting ways to represent your venue? We are here to help, or you can work with one of our dealers to receive expert tips and assistance creating your perfect invitations!
This darling blind emboss bridal shower invitation came to us from our friend Lindsay at Invite Me Invitations. The design is inspired by our now-retired Hazel save the date. The delicate floral artwork appears as blind embossing, while the text appears in spruce letterpress printing.
Specifications
letterpress ink: spruce
embossing: blind
fonts: optima + antique
paper: bella cotton white 2-ply
card size: a-6
liner: hazel pattern in spruce + cypress
envelope: pointed flap white cotton text
digital envelope addressing: spruce digital on the front and the back
job: 75311
Embossing is a printing technique that creates a raised impression. The embossing for this design does not feature ink, so the raised artwork stands above the texture of the paper. The impression of the floral artwork is crisp, yet subtle. All of the text appears in spruce letterpress. Letterpress printing presses into the paper, creating a depression. This bridal show invitation creates an interesting dichotomy between the raised artwork and the pressed text. The soft hue of our spruce ink maintains the gentle balance of the design.
The single floral sprig on the card appears as a pattern for the envelope liner. The pattern is digitally printed in spruce for a cohesive appearance with the invitation. While the background is digitally printed in cypress, providing contrast.
Just a reminder that when we retire a design, that means we no longer maintain samples. You can still select and customize any of our retired designs; however, samples of that design are no longer available. This customization also shows how easy it is to change the application of a design. A save the date can become a blind emboss bridal shower invitation, or any type of invitation.
Are you thinking about custom invitations for your next event? Whether you need invites for a bridal shower, baby shower, retirement party, or any other milestone occasion, we are here to help! Contact us to learn more or work with one of our dealers for expert assistance in creating your bespoke invitations.
These letterpress wedding invitations have a cozy vibe and a subdued elegance, perfect for a winter wedding. Danielle and Nicolas worked with our NYC store to create these custom invitations, complete with a decadent velvet belly band and stunning one-of-a-kind envelope liner.
Invitation
letterpress ink: holly
fonts: aston script + diotima
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 2-ply
card size: f-8
liner: supplied pattern in marsala digital on ivory text
envelope: evergreen text
envelope addressing: ivory digital on the front and back
job #73960
Belly Band
paper: bella velvet in wine
card size: short f-8 vertical belly band (1.25 x 13.25 open, 1.25 x 6.24 closed)
job #73960
A custom monogram, featuring the bride and groom’s first initials, appears at the top of the invitation. Underneath the initials is a branch frame, adding a rustic element to the monogram and a subtle nod to the venue, Cedar Lakes Estate. We offer a wide selection of frames and borders, enabling you to create a unique monogram for your invitations.
Reply Card
letterpress ink: holly
fonts: aston script + diotima
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-2
job #73960
Details Card
letterpress ink: holly
fonts: aston script + diotima
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-6
job #73960
Rehearsal Dinner Invitation
letterpress ink: holly
fonts: aston script + diotima
paper: bella smooth cotton ivory 1-ply
card size: a-2
job #73960
Our Bella smooth cotton paper in 2-ply has a smooth surface and holds a lovely letterpress impression. Holly ink paired with the ivory paper adds warmth to the design. The velvet belly band in wine wraps around the invitation, introducing texture and even more richness to the overall aesthetic.
The bride and groom sent in a custom illustration for the envelope liner, which is so charming and adds a beautiful, personal touch to the overall suite. The illustration depicts a winter scene of the couple and their beloved dog, walking through the snow to the reception venue. The liner is digitally printed in marsala ink on ivory text-weight paper. Our marsala ink beautifully coordinates with the wine velvet used for the belly band, tying everything together.
It was a delight to work with Danielle and Nicolas on their letterpress wedding invitation. Do you have ideas for a monogram or a charming illustrated envelope liner? Contact us to design your invitation or work with one of our dealers to see samples and swatches in person and receive expert assistance creating your dream invitation.
We are so happy to share our 2025 Holiday release with you, and today, we have a behind-the-scenes look at the inspiration behind some of our new designs. From classic and cozy to elegant and sophisticated, see the inspiration behind some of our favorite designs, and get inspired to design your holiday cards.
Burlington
Burlington has a classic and rustic vibe. This holiday card features our handmade paper, and the natural deckle edge gives this design a cozy, nostalgic feeling. The clear shine foil stamping adds a glimmer to the falling snow and elevates the design.
Specifications
letterpress ink: cypress
foil stamping: clear shine
fonts: instrument serif + angeline
paper: bella handmade ivory
card size: a-7 (tier 3)
liner: burlington pattern in cypress + ruby + holly
envelope: evergreen
digital addressing ink: ivory
Weaver
The mistletoe border of Weaver is luxurious and has a quintessential Christmas look, for a design that is both vintage-inspired and contemporary. Our cotton paper in 2-ply holds a deep letterpress impression, and the ivory paper color coordinates beautifully with the vine and ruby inks. Ruby edge painting highlights the thickness of the stock while matching much of the printing on the front.
Specifications
letterpress inks: vine + ruby
fonts: desirable calligraphy + valentino
paper: bella cotton ivory 2-ply
card size: f-8 (tier 3)
edge painting: ruby
mounted photo print: 3.75 x 3.75 matte
liner: weaver pattern in vine + ruby
envelope: ruby
digital addressing ink: ivory
Bridger
Metallic gold engraving is traditional and refined, and elevates the look of Bridger. This design is both die-cut and beveled. The 45° bevel is emphasized with metallic gold edge painting. The mounted family photo adds a personal touch while marking an important milestone.
Specifications
engraving inks: holly + metallic gold
fonts: juliette + didot
paper: bella cotton ivory 3-ply
card size: sq-7 (tier 3)
mounted photo print: 4 x 3 matte
bevel: 45° winston
edge painting: metallic gold
liner: bridger pattern in holly + cypress
envelope: bella cotton ivory
digital addressing ink: holly
Gosse
Sculpted embossing combined with sculpted foil embossing gives our Gosse design dimension and adds movement to the foliage artwork. Cedar shine foil adds a seasonally appropriate shimmer. The velvet liner brings everything together and adds an element of grandeur.
Specifications
foil stamping: cedar shine
sculpted embossing: blind
sculpted foil embossing: cedar shine
fonts: angelline + brandon grotesque + adele moon
paper: metallic sand 2-ply
card size: a-6 (tier 2)
liner: wine velvet
custom converted envelope*: mesa | digital addressing ink: bordeaux
*peel and stick tape is available to seal the envelope.
Now is the time to get your holiday orders in, and we can help! Contact us to design your 2025 holiday card or work with one of our dealers to see samples, color swatches, and receive expert guidance!
